A word about virginity, abstinence and loyalty

Andrew Garten

Copy Editor

Which is more difficult, to quit smoking or to quit having sex?

While you ponder this, I'd like you to consider with me the benefits of not being sexually active. These days it's called abstinence. Read More

Sex, sex education and body hair upkeep

Adam Starr

Ad Manager

Sex is a wonderful perk of being a human. In fact none of us would exist without sex. When you are young and in the pre- college years, sex is a very strange and unknown ground for mostly everyone. But after a trimester or semester of health class you learn something about sex, some which is good and some which is bad. The good side of sex is that it can lead to good feelings for both people, the bad side of sex leads to abortions (which we will not get into) and sexually transmitted diseases. Read More

-Sex with S & M-

Reconstructing the hymen and curing blue balls

Dear S & M,

I've recently started dating a guy and he believes strongly in waiting for sex until marriage. I am not a virgin and not sure how to tell him. Things are getting serious and I'm not sure what to do.
-Wannabe Virgin

Dear Wannabe Virgin,

Well, first you should ask yourself if you are seriously planning on getting married to this guy. If you are, then you have two options: A) Be honest. Or, B) Reconstruct your hymen. Read More

DoBetta advice: boyfriends who don't

Dear DoBetta,

My boyfriend is so flaky sometimes! He says he'll do something, and never does. He says we'll spend time together or do something on a certain day, and he flakes out. He says so many things and rarely follows through. Read More